How can you Respect your Opponent and Want to Beat him Badly, at the Same Time?
Guest Blogger: Inner-Sportsby Garret Kramer
This question was recently asked of me during my talk to the players at Baseball Factory’s Omaha Pro Select Training and Tournament in Council Bluffs, Iowa. It is certainly a great question and my answer might surprise you. Think about your opponents in baseball as being present to perform a generous service for your benefit. They are actually playing with you to help you drive passed your current skill level. So, if you actually think of competition as cooperation you can have it both ways: you can respect your opponents because they are there for you, pushing you along; while at the same time it is your job to play with maximum effort in your quest to beat them. Thinking about the game and competition in this fashion allows you to appreciate the opposing team, as you approach the game unbounded by any type of negative energy. In this state of higher consciousness, the game will simply comes easier as you see things more clearly on and off the field.
The next time you find your team in any type of tournament setting, try to look at the competition in this way: the role of each team you face is to throw tough pitches and hit hard balls at you until you master your own ability to handle these plays. When achieved, you move on to face an even tougher opponent and so on. By the end of the tournament, I can virtually guarantee that the team comprised of players and coaches who have looked at their adversaries in this respectful but competitive manner, will have moved through their opponents one by one, until there are none left standing!
Garret Kramer is the founder and Managing Partner of Inner-Sports, LLC. Inner-Sports evaluates and then coaches athletes of all ages on the behavioral characteristics that lead to peak performance on and off the field of play. Inner-Sport’s evaluative partner has created the behavioral assessment used at both the National Hockey League and the Major League Lacrosse scouting combines. Inner-Sports and Garret work with Baseball Factory players at select player development events.
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